"If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth
is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will
forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness." 1 John
1:8-9
You shall
have no other gods before me: Pride
Who comes first in my life—God or myself? His will or mine? Have I been
vain or boastful about my looks, clothing, ability, possessions, family
background, success? Belittled others for their sins, poverty, ignorance,
race, or religion?
Have I been sorry for myself, stubborn, bossy, or dictatorial? Refused
to apologize, admit myself wrong? Have I learned true humility?
You shall
not make for yourself any idol: Idolatry and Fear
Have I loved some person or thing more than I love God? Failed to do
what I knew was right for fear that I might be unpopular or suffer hurt
or embarrassment? Do I worry about food, money, health? Have I learned
the meaning of courage? If I suffered some great loss, pain, disappointment,
would I lose my faith?
You shall
not misuse the name of the Lord: Irreverence
Have I been careless in my language; flippant with the name of God, or
the holy name of Jesus? Indulged in other forms of profanity? Have I been
reverent in the Church, honoring His cross, remembering His presence?
Have I prepared myself spiritually before each Communion, or have I received
thoughtlessly?
Remember
the Sabbath day by keeping it holy: Spiritual Laziness
Have I missed Sunday worship through late sleep? Too much party Saturday
night? Excused myself because of homework, housework, guests, or entertainment?
And how about my "grace" at meals? Daily Bible reading? Do I
need more discipline?
Honor your
father and your mother: Disrespect
Have I been loving and thoughtful toward my parents? Cared for them in
illness? Helped them, visited, written to them, prayed for them? Is their
burden lighter or heavier because of me?
And do I show respect to all in authority, observing and obeying
traffic laws, tax laws, etc., or do I try to get away with things when
I think I won't be caught?
You shall
not commit murder: Hate and Anger
Do I hold a grudge against anyone? Have I struck anyone in anger? Hurt
them by ridicule or unkind gossip? Endangered lives by fast driving?
Is there anyone I have not forgiven or am not on speaking terms with?
Have I failed to show love, holding resentments, neglecting the
sick, the lonely, the bereaved, the poor?
You shall
not commit adultery: Lust, Impurity
Have I been impure in thought, word, or deed? Indulged in unclean stories,
pictures, jokes, immoral media? Been immodest in action or dress? Am I
practicing temperance in all things? Keeping my body physically
fit, a "temple" of the Holy Spirit? Is there anything going
on in my life that I would be ashamed to reveal to my family, friends,
or minister?
You shall
not steal: Dishonesty
Have I taken what did not belong to me? Cheated in any way at home, school,
or business? Wasted other people's time by being late? Gambled, seeking
to win by luck at the expense of others? Paid bills and pledges? Returned
things I borrowed?
Do I practice honesty and faithful stewardship with the
many gifts and blessings that I have received?
You shall
not give false testimony against your neighbor: Lying and Deceit
Have I told a direct lie to anyone? Exaggerated? Accused a person on
hearsay? Silently allowed others to be blamed for what was my fault? Criticized
others for sins I, too, have committed? Worshipped the Lord on Sunday
without really trying to follow Him through the week?
Recognizing my need to make amends and establish the truth?
You shall
not covet: Jealousy and Envy
Have I been jealous because others have more possessions or friends?
Envied their success and popularity? Been glad when others failed? Been
sad, discontented? Indulged in self-pity?
Have I ever forgotten that God loves me, that God is in me, that I
can do all things through Christ who strengthens me? |